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Through
Thick & Thin
STOP is a good
little mental tool for confronting temptation and cravings. The acronym stands
for Stop what you're doing, Take a breath and a moment to
Observe what's really getting to you, and Plan your next right
move, because once you've assessed the situation, eating usually isn't it! It's
a nifty and effective little tool, but it's only helpful if you actually use
it.
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Understanding your setpoint; learning to STOP
The human body
is a wonderful, complicated machine.
Your
disgestive system, your brain and your fat stores all work together through a
highly complex biochemical interaction to help you maintain a stable weight.
These different parts of your body communicate with one another through various
feedback mechanisms in an effort to coordinate the various activities that
maintain your weight at a specific level. That level is known as the
setpoint.
Think of your
setpoint as a thermostat. In your home, you set your thermostat at the
temperature you most enjoy and expect your heating or air conditioning system to
respond to outside conditions and maintain your home at that termperature. By
the same token, your setpoint raises or lowers your appetite and metabolism-the
rate at which your body burns calories-in response to how much you eat.
You may now
ask the obvious question: "If my body is designed to maintain a stable weight,
then why did I gain weight and why is it so darn hard to lose it?
Back to our
thermostat analogy. Let's say that the outside temperature is 85 degrees and you
want your home's cooling system to maintain an indoor temperature of 72 degrees.
No problem. Your air conditioner won't have to work too hard to cool the outside
air by only 13 degrees.
But let's
throw in a heat wave when the outside temperature climbs to a sweltering 110. No
matter how hard your ASC struggles, it won't be able to maintain that desired 72
degree temperature. The gap is just too big. So what does it do? It maintains
the lowest temperature it can-but it will still be higher than 72 degrees!
That's what
happens with your setpoint. If, over a long period of time, you develop a
greater gap between the calories you eat and those you use up in exercise, your
body's weight regulation system will adjust your setpoint upward. Your body then
settles in to maintain that higher weight.
That answers
the first part of your question, but what about why it's so hard to the weight
back off?
When you start
to lose weight, your body's metabolic alarm goes off. It alerts your body-which
strives for equilibrium or that stable status quo-that you are not eating as
much as usual. In turn, your body demands more food. It's a survival mechanism,
built in eons ago, and not easily reprogrammed.
For years, I
have reassured my patients that dieters don't fail for lack of willpower but
because of cravings! As long as your setpoint remains evelvated, you will be
assaulted by those blasted cravings every time your body senses that you are not
eating enough to maintain your present weight.
Those
physiological hunger alarms thus make it extremely hard for overweight people to
lose weight, and even harder for them to keep it off. Your body is fighting to
hold on to whatever excess fat it has become accustomed to, and it does its best
to replace any weight you lose.
Last week, I
offered a number of strategies for dealing with cravings, but here's a little
framework for bringing them into play.
People who
know the phrase "lead us not into temptation" grow up thinking of temptation as
the first step down a slippery slope into some kind of disaster, and it often
is, if you yield to it.
But you can
also think of temptation as an early warning system. Sure, there are times when
it just doesn't bother you to be around a lovely plate of brownies, or French
fries, or some other treat that's just not on your dietary program. But
sometimes you are tempted. But instead of regarding that craving as the
first step toward actually eating the off-limits treats, regard it as the signal
to pull in reinforcements, just in case. Even before you start to feel really
compelled to go for the goodies.
If you feel
tempted, STOP!
STOP is
an acronym for a four-step process that you can use to good benefit.
S-Stop!
Visualize a stop sign and hear the word "stop." Immediately stop whatever it
is you're doing.
T-Take
a deep, cleansing breath. This creates a window of opportunity during which
you can recognize and assess the temptation you're faced with, and take
appropriate action.
O-Observe
your situation, yourself, and and your options. Analyze what's going on. How
are you feeling? What do you want? What do you need? In your observation, use
the HALT analysis. Am I Hungry, Angry, Lonely or Tired? That's because we often
react automatically, sometimes inappropriately to these stimuli. Of these, only
true hunger is a good reason to eat. If there's something else playing into your
temptation, then eating is not the correct response, plain and simple.
P-Plan
your correct action. You've got choices, so what are they? What's really
important to you? What actions will help you move toward what matters, toward an
appropriate response, and away from the temptation and reactionary eating.
Go ahead and
let yourself hear whatever voices inside you are suggesting that you abandon or
sabotage your healthy intentions, and pause long enough to acknowledge and
respond to those voices. A good response might be, "Thanks for sharing, now move
along."
Then shift the
focus away from food by doing something else: sit quietly for five minutes and
let your attention rest on your breathing; phone a friend; review a list of your
motivations for getting healthy (you have made that list by now, haven't you?)
or take a walk.
And encourage
yourself as you would a friend or loved one. We're often too willing to let
ourselves fail without offering the support we would give to even a casual pal.
Remember that sometimes, if you're not hearing what you need to hear, it might
be because you're not saying it yourself.
The more often
you use the STOP method to manage cravings, the more easily and effectively
you'll be able to resist temptations and overcome your body's natural tendency
to push you back to your setpoint.
But the more
frequently you do it successfully, the easier it becomes, just as with anything
else that takes practice. After a while you get good at it, and it just becomes
a habit. A good habit.
Caroline J. Cederquist, M.D. is a board certified Bariatric
Physicians, the medical specialty of weight management, and a board certified
Family Physician. She specializes in lifetime weight management at the
Cederquist Medical Wellness Center, her Naples, FL private practice.
Dr. Cederquist is a contributing medical editor for NBC-2 News, a trustee
of the American Society Of Bariatric Physicians and the author of " Helping Your
Overweight Child - A Family Guide", www.Amazon.Com or by Calling Toll-Free 1-800-431-1579.
If you are interested in a delicious, doctor-designed, foolproof plan for
fast and healthy weight loss please visit Dr. Cederquist's Diet-To-Your-Door
program by clicking here.
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