So many
challenges. You may have a couple more holiday parties to survive. You’ve got
all the holiday leftovers in the fridge and the last of the cookies and candies
and other goodies that everyone will bring in to work and leave lying
tantalizingly around.
But you’ve got
your New Year’s resolution, however you’ve framed it this year—no carbs, less
fats, better exercise, more fresh fruits and vegetables—and you’re already
warming up to it.
So perhaps
you’re steeled against those scattered temptations. Maybe you’ve armed yourself
with little reminders of your motivations for eating better, losing weight and
getting healthy. Maybe you’re making it easier by exiling the junk you used to
eat and getting the house stocked with the good foods you should be
enjoying.
But no matter
what else you do, you’re still going to have
food cravings that hit you out of
nowhere. It’s like having a guerrilla enemy trying to undermine your best
dietary intentions. These recurrent, unwanted urges can derail your weight-loss
efforts and erode your confidence. But you don’t have to let them.
Understanding the enemy
Food cravings
result from various physical, psychological and environmental factors that
affect the way your body and brain function. The causes fall roughly into four
general categories: time of day, places, activities and feelings.
Most people
feel hungry around “dinner time,” whatever that is for them. Going to your
mother’s house, or even past the local donut shop, can stimulate a desire to
eat. Watching television is an activity that’s notorious for raising the impulse
to eat.
Emotions can
be the most compelling stimulus of all. Many times, uncomfortable feelings such
as anxiety or resentment cause people to reach for food. But good feelings can
trigger an eating spree, too. Many people overeat when they feel like
celebrating, when they are having fun with friends, or when they just find
themselves in an unusually good mood. Good food is an enhancement to most
enjoyable experiences.
I really can’t
overemphasize the significance food cravings have for people with entrenched weight
issues. They are a big part of the problem. As a result, we put some
considerable effort into helping people identify and understand their individual
triggers, and ultimately break the associations that cause them.
But even if
you don’t have a structured approach for breaking the root of the craving
problem, there are things you can do to effectively respond when a craving
arises. Here a defensive arsenal.
Distraction
There’s a
saying: “If you don’t like how you’re feeling, change what you’re doing.” You
can apply it to almost any feeling, but it’s especially helpful for dealing with
the urge to eat. A simple shift in your current activity is often all it takes
to derail a craving, instead of letting the craving derail you. So when you feel
a craving about to overwhelm you, do something else.