Helping Your Overweight Child Family Involvement Is Key
Caroline J. Cederquist, M.D.
When one of the first words to come out of your daughter's
mouth is "chips" (and she’s too young to know who Erik Estrada is),
you begin to wonder what kind of eating habits lay ahead for her.
It is a problem millions of American parents face,
as their kids grow more and more chubby. Poor nutrition and inadequate
exercise only make the dilemma worse, driving the U.S. Surgeon General
to declare childhood obesity a national epidemic.
As a board certified Family Physician, and one of
only a handful of Bariatric Physicians nationwide specializing in
weight management, I hear the horror stories of severely clogged
arteries in boys as young as 15. That’s no mere case of “baby fat”
– it's a potentially deadly condition. Such childhood obesity grows
up into adult heart disease, diabetes, kidney ailments and other
lethal complications. It can make a parent worry about her little
one.
When I began seeing an alarming number of parents
bring their children to me for help, I wrote the book, Helping your
Overweight Child: A Family Guide. I wanted a useful easy-to-read
guide to aid concerned parents looking to ensure their child’s health
and fitness. In the book, I discuss nutrition, exercise, emotional
well-being and provide extensive lists of healthier grocery and
restaurant food choices.
A 2001 study by the Center for Disease Control found
that nearly 1/3 of our nation’s kids fit the medical definition
of “obese.” That same CDC examination tracked an alarming rise in
the number of childhood diseases associated with excess weight.
Fortunately, there is hope for parents concerned
about their children’s health because doctors and other health professionals
are aware of the problem, and we’ve developed proven clinical means
to get our kids fit.
While genetics plays a role in causing the condition,
unhealthy habits such as the consumption of fatty fast food and
sugary soft drinks, along with a lack of cardiovascular activity,
are significant contributing factors in the obesity trend. The problem
even drove some California legislatures to propose a special tax
on sugared sodas to help pay the rising health costs of childhood
weight complications.
The biggest concern about childhood obesity is not
necessarily the husky youth, but the overweight adult that he or
she will become. Researchers predict that, instead of seeing heart
disease develop in these individuals as they reach their 50s and
60s, our kids might suffer heart disease as early as their 20s and
30s.
In fact, studies show 97 million Americans are now
overweight or obese, and experts say this obesity costs employers
more than $100 billion annually. The potential cost in human lives
lost to weight-related diseases is impossible to calculate. I believe
the best way to prevent such tragedies is literally to “nip them
in the bud.” Let’s get them while they’re young.
Based on research and my personal experience, the
best practical advice is to get the entire family involved in the
treatment. Children can learn healthy eating and exercise habits
from their parents while their adult role models practice what they
preach.
No matter if it’s preparing a healthy dinner menu
or planning vigorous activities for a child’s weekend away from
school, parents need to be active participants in their child's
weight loss regimen. Obese children achieve the best weight loss
results when the entire family changes its behavior because it’s
the habits of a household that cause youthful obesity through inactivity
and poor eating routines.
When parents make healthy dining and enjoyable exercise
a priority, they don't treat their overweight children differently
than the rest of the family. Placing a heavy child on a diet or
exercise programs outside of the regular family routine can embarrass
or alienate the youth, so the strategy typically produces only short-term
results. When you were a kid, how easy would it have been for you
to eat healthy and stay active if other family members were eating
potato chips and ice cream while watching hours of TV? Indeed, everyone
in the family can use a little more exercise while eating more fruits,
vegetables and low-fat dairy products.
The first step in developing a healthy family lifestyle
is for parents to examine their own behavior and recognize how it
influences their children. As a parent, if you want your child to
develop smart habits, you must model the kinds of activities that
would point your child in the right direction. We all know that
children idolize their parents and seek to mirror their behavior.
If you want your child to eat right and exercise, it’s not merely
a case of “Do as I say, not as I do.” You must evaluate your own
health and fitness conditions and make necessary changes.
Daily walks with your kids are a great way to add
physical activity to the family lifestyle. Also, reduce access to
the TV. The average child eats 600 calories a day in front of the
TV. If you cut that in half, you eliminate five pounds of potential
gained weight a year.
Another great step is to cook healthy meals that
children will actually eat. You can log onto the American Heart
Association (AHA) web site at www.americanheart.org
and click on the “Heart-Health Recipe” section. My own site at www.drcederquist.com
offers a “News & Lifestyles” section that includes great recipes.
Finally, my book packs an extensive recipe list.
In addition to the essential physical elements of
improved diet and exercise, it's important to provide children with
positive social and emotional support when helping them to lose
weight. Negative reinforcement, scolding and verbal abuse always
do more harm than good, and parents don't have to be food police.
It's more effective when you rearrange the environment so that there
are only healthy foods available and praise the child for being
active and trying healthy foods.
To make heart-smart eating simple for a child to
understand, you can use the “Red Light, Green Light” system that
links foods into groups. Low-calorie foods are "green," and the
child can eat them freely. Moderate-calorie foods are "yellow,"
and are best eaten occasionally. High-calorie foods carry the stoplight
color of "red,” reminding the child to eat them rarely. It's an
easy way for a kid to learn how to identify diet speed traps while
substituting healthy foods for unhealthy munchies. Most importantly,
it helps children develop healthy food preferences that last a lifetime.
With so many problems facing our kids these days,
from real-world violence to deficits in our school systems, their
weight and physical fitness are two areas in which you can positively
influence your children. I speak from experience as both a doctor
and a parent when I tell you what a rewarding relief it is to know
you’re leading your child toward a future free of potentially deadly
excess weight.
Caroline J. Cederquist, M.D. is a board certified Bariatric Physicians,
the medical specialty of weight management, and a board certified
Family Physician. She specializes in lifetime weight management
at the Cederquist Medical Wellness Center, her Naples, FL private
practice.
Dr. Cederquist is a contributing
medical editor for NBC-2 News, a trustee of the American Society
Of Bariatric Physicians and the author of " Helping Your Overweight
Child - A Family Guide", www.Amazon.Com or by
Calling Toll-Free 1-800-431-1579.
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